My garden sighs longingly with a heavy yearning that murmurs quietly up stems of faithfulness held straight and true by deep-rooted perseverance, and eases into tightly folded, pent-up buds. From there it throws itself upon the windy strains of gossip floating amidst ivory magnolias (perseverance), nodding camellia (longing) and fragrant lemons blossoms (fidelity).
No, I have not been reading too many fortune cookies with rolled up paper slips foretelling my future! I’m learning about Victorian gardens and culture, which was so modest and restrained that emotions were often communicated indirectly through symbolism, such as the “language of flowers”. Messages were encoded by choosing certain flowers to compose a bouquet. Yet strangely, when I apply this language to the flowers in my garden, it tells a fairly accurate tale. I do having longing, faithfulness and perseverance. I long to bring several creative visions to fruition, a desire supported by deep roots of perseverance and devotion to my dreams, beliefs, ethics, family and friends.
So it might just be fun to see what the flowers and herbs you’ve chosen for your garden mean! Are they warning of deceitful danger nearby? Proclaiming an exuberant “welcome“? A “decoder” list of their Victorian meanings resides at Wikipedia: Language of Flowers. At least it could save you from mistakenly sending a bouquet claiming undying love. Conversely, if you do want to send one this Valentine’s day, you’ll know how!
A few examples:
nuts – stupidity (perhaps the origin of the phrase “he/she’s nuts”?)
verbena – pray for me
clematis – ingenuity
marjoram – happiness
bluebell – humility, gratitude
wisteria – welcome
violet – let’s take a chance on happiness